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What If Pretending You're Fine Is Making Things Worse?

May 4, 2026

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5 min read

What If Pretending You're Fine Is Making Things Worse?

Most of us aren't intentionally faking it. We just stopped expecting anyone to actually want to know. This week on Happy Hour, we're getting into what happens when you finally stop performing "fine" — and let someone see the real you.

Rashidat Odeyemi

May 4, 2026

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5 min read

What If Pretending You're Fine Is Making Things Worse?

Rashidat Odeyemi

Your Burnout Isn't From Working Too Hard — It's This

Mar 30, 2026

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5 min read

Your Burnout Isn't From Working Too Hard — It's This

I wasn't burned out because I worked too hard. I was raised to be the strong one — the good Christian girl, living the life my ancestors dreamt of — and that meant saying no was never even on the table. So for years, I just kept pushing... until I realized the work wasn't what was wearing me down.

Rashidat Odeyemi

6 Lessons I Learned Turning My Hobby into a Business (Without Burning Out)

Oct 29, 2025

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6 min read

6 Lessons I Learned Turning My Hobby into a Business (Without Burning Out)

I left my 9–5 to chase passion, purpose, and freedom... and still ended up burnt out.So if you’ve been thinking about turning your hobby into a business — this one’s for you.

Rashidat Odeyemi